Following the Death of a Loved One – Guidance and What to expect from your GP Practice
After the death of a loved one, the days that follow can feel overwhelming and confusing. As the next of kin or a close family member, there are important steps that need to be taken both immediately and in the first few days.
Below you will find detailed, step-by-step guides outlining what to do after a death as a next of kin or family member.
➡️What to do when someone dies: step by step – GOV.UK
➡️What to do when someone dies: step-by-step checklist | Age UK
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| Medical Examiner | Medical examiners are senior medical doctors, who are trained in the legal and clinical elements of death certification processes. Their role is to independently assess the cause of death. Since 2024, all community deaths (home or care home) that are not referred to the coroner must also be reviewed by a Medical Examiner before the MCCD is released. |
| Coroner | Investigates deaths that are sudden, unexplained, or potentially unnatural |
| MCCD | The Medical Certificate of Cause of Death (MCCD) is the document that states the medical cause of death. It is completed by a doctor and reviewed by a Medical Examiner and is required before a death can be registered. |
Grief after bereavement or loss
Most people experience grief when they lose someone important to them, some of the most common symptoms include:
- shock and numbness – this is usually the first reaction to loss, and people often talk about “being in a daze”
- overwhelming sadness, with lots of crying
- tiredness or exhaustion
- anger – towards the person you’ve lost or the reason for your loss
- guilt – for example, guilt about feeling angry, about something you said or did not say, or not being able to stop your loved one dying
These feelings may not be there all the time and powerful feelings may appear unexpectedly.
It’s not always easy to recognise when bereavement, grief or loss are the reason you’re acting or feeling differently.
➡️Click here for more information on Grief or Bereavement
Berevement Councelling
Space2grieve offers free, confidential, one-to-one bereavement support to adults, children and young people struggling with grief in Richmond borough.
Bereavement Support Specialists can listen, understand, and support you as you find your way forward.
Adult Support Email: support@space2grieve.org.uk
Children & Young People Support Email: cypsupport@space2grieve.org.uk
Compassionate Cuppa
space2grieve also supports compassionate cuppa, a monthly free grief café providing support and connection for bereaved residents of the Richmond Borough. space2grieve volunteers offer a warm welcome, but more importantly a safe place to share experiences with other bereaved people. This is a drop-in service, no referral needed.
10.00 – 11.30 am every 3rd Tuesday of the month
ETNA Community Centre, TW1 2AR
